Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Family name




I haven't talked or seen my cousin for 5 years.

5 years ago his parents separated (his father is my fathers brother so we share the same family name)

So out of the blue I decided to search for him on facebook And I couldn't find his name at first and I thought

"Hmm maybe his not into facebook" And I tried to search for him again using his middle name. And to my surprise He only used his mothers maiden name and removed his fathers family name sa name niya.

Honestly I felt offended, hurt and disapointed with my cousin

Kung galit siya sa dad niya, dahil iniwan sila then it does not give him the right to remove his fathers last name sa name niya

Dinamay na niya lahat pati yung lolo namin including yung mga ninuno namin

I decided to to tell my uncle  pero I decided not to,  kasi baka pati siya mahurt sa ginawa ng anak niya

It's clear to me that he wants to erased his father from his life

If we have family reunions sa christmas, new year, other special ocassions,  he would not show up including his siblings

I feel sad sa nangyari kasi close naman kami ng cousin ko at lumayo na sila sa family namin

7 comments:

  1. i can relate here..lumaki ako na walang tatay pero khit bli-baliktarin man ntin ang mundo, sila prin ang mga mgulang ntin dba.

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  2. weee... marami din akong cousin sa ganyang case pero di nila ginawa ang ganyan ka tragic and where still a family...

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  3. sayang naman.... pero im sure babalik din ang dati nilang pagsasama.. iba pa rin ang lukso ng dugo di ba?

    magkakapatawaran din sila balang araw.... mangyayari yun sa takdang panahon...

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  4. baka time lang ang kailangan kaya? at the end of the day magkakadugo pa rin kayong lahat.

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  5. ay siguro he has his own reason kung bakit nia ginawa yun...

    maybe in time maiintindihan niu rin cia although nakakaoffend yun pero we should give him a benefit of a doubt...

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  6. @emmanuel
    yun nga eh kasi tatay pa rin siya di na
    maiiba yun

    @kikomax
    good for you kasi pinsan ko parang
    tinalikuran na niya ang family ng dad niya

    @egG, sean and sweetish
    siguro he needs time to heal pero its
    5 years na eh

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  7. hmmm... perhaps there is a deeper and more complex reason kung bakit nga nya yun nagawa...

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