Tuesday, February 15, 2011
I haven't talked or seen my cousin for 5 years.
5 years ago his parents separated (his father is my fathers brother so we share the same family name)
So out of the blue I decided to search for him on facebook And I couldn't find his name at first and I thought
"Hmm maybe his not into facebook" And I tried to search for him again using his middle name. And to my surprise He only used his mothers maiden name and removed his fathers family name sa name niya.
Honestly I felt offended, hurt and disapointed with my cousin
Kung galit siya sa dad niya, dahil iniwan sila then it does not give him the right to remove his fathers last name sa name niya
Dinamay na niya lahat pati yung lolo namin including yung mga ninuno namin
I decided to to tell my uncle pero I decided not to, kasi baka pati siya mahurt sa ginawa ng anak niya
It's clear to me that he wants to erased his father from his life
If we have family reunions sa christmas, new year, other special ocassions, he would not show up including his siblings
I feel sad sa nangyari kasi close naman kami ng cousin ko at lumayo na sila sa family namin