Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Marriage

My cousin is getting married this year sa 2011. As usual ako na lagi ang  bridesmaid groomsman but never the groom hehehee.

Yung pinsan ko is 2 years younger than me. Sinabihan  nanaman ako ng nanay ko na  inunahan pa ako ng pinsan ko, magpakasal at dapat  mag girlfriend na ako ulit. Kasi daw baka late na daw ako magasawa at kung magkaanak naman ako eh mahirap na. Kasi baka lolo na ako at nasa wheel chair at ang anak ko eh highschool pa lang. And I should get married na daw before I turn 30.

Kasi yung older siblings ko are married na so its my turn na daw. Hay naku! di naman ganun kadali maghanap ng girlfriend or mainlove.  

Eto naman ang naisip ko lalo na sa mga katulad ko na bachelor pa:


All of us has the sense of unease of growing old alone without family and kids.And I think the reason why we feel uneasy about not getting married, is because we all  see marriage as  our ultimate life goal.

And because we still harbor the feeling that you haven't reached our goals yet, then we  feel uneasy about our life, and we develop  an  anxiety about it. I believe that we should change our way of thinking regarding marriage. Because some people are married but are not happy or some are separated or divorced.

Pero di naman ako nagiisa na single sa mundo,. I mean kahit ang presidente ng pilipinas eh single pa rin  at his age. And yung iba namang celebrities like mar roxas, regine velasquez, etc. eh mga late na din sila magpakasal. So for me, it has nothing to do with age. 



12 comments:

  1. tama! mahirap pumulot na lang jan ng kung sino para magka love life ka lang! (haha)

    Goodluck sayo! :)

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  2. It really has nothing to do with age. It is all about mentality, as you said, almost everyone wants to get married sooner or later in their lives, that becomes everyone's goal. If we think differently, we change our goals, we will not be depressed about being single at such a late age.

    Changing our thoughts will change our lives.

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  3. check,, being committed with someone through marriage has nothing to do with the age but with how prepare you are for bigger responsibilities..

    choz!!

    hehehehe

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  4. hehe... ganun pala ang feeling...
    wala ako masabi. pero tatandaan ko yan kapag dumating na'ku dun (mukhang dun rin kasi ako papunta). a change of perspective, you say :)

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  5. whahah sakit sa bangs nun... much better kung single para magawa ang dapat magawa... at mahirap din kasi kapag nasa relationship ka na a lot of commitments to do di ba.. so ok lang yan... enjot being single and to mingle.. (naks ako ba to pasaway kasi post mo eh)
    dadating din ang tamang panahon para dian :D

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  6. @mr chan

    thanks tama ka diyan mahirap talaga kaya
    nga nagkaroon ng mail order bride

    @canonista very well said at dapat isama
    din ang financially ready

    @ceiboh
    yup bigger responisibilities and mababawasan
    ang sarap ng buhay and being selfish

    @nowitzki
    unpredictable kasi ang future eh di natin
    alam kung ano mangyayari

    @axl hindi naman pasaway kundi may point ka
    masarap maging single

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  7. at talagang naglecture ka po. hehe. sige ikaw na, ikaw na ang maraming alam sa marriage stuff. hehe. pero tama ka. maraming married jan, mas masaya pa tayo sa kanila. it's really a matter of perspective, you say. the bottomline is, whether you are happy or not. go for what makes you happy. :)

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  8. paaaak na pak yan! mabuti ako hindi na tinatanong ni mama. hahahaha

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  9. hahaha ang galing ni IDOL malaking TOMO.. pero bata pa naman ako kaya ikaw na muna mauna.. hahaha...

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  10. Gatungan ko lang comment ni Ceiboh..

    CZECH CZECH CZECH REPUBLIC!

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  11. next time akong tanungin, isasama ko sina vice ganda, john lapus, at roderick paulate sa iyong listahan ng mga sikat na di agad nag-asawa.

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  12. love comes in the most unexpected time and place with the unexpected person ..tandaan nyo po ..

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