Saturday, February 9, 2013

Judging people

They say if you're bisexual, your confused. If you're gay, it's a sin. If your skinny you're on drugs. If you're fat, you look nasty. If you dressed up, you're conceited. If you dressed for comfort you're a slob. If you speak you're mind your a bitch/asshole. If you don't say anything, your rude. If you are sweet to strangers, you are a fake. If you cry, you're a drama queen/king or baby. If you have lots of male friends, you're a whore. If you have lot of female friends, you're a player.

You can't do anything without being labelled. We live in a society where people can't survive if they're not judging the next person.

When I was younger,  I worry too much about what others think of me

I hate that side of me

That’s why I didn’t want anyone to get to know me, I wanted to hide that side of myself And I hate it

But right now, I'm  proud of what I am  and I don't give any shit on what anyone think of me.

 Because for me if you would always be conscious, on what people will say to you, then you will never be happy.

We only get  hurt unless we let them.


  1. unfortunately... andito pa ako sa stage na anlaki ng walls na ginawa ko para umiwas sa mga mapanghusga.... :(

  2. I agree! di lahat ng pagkakataon ay mapi-please natin ang lahat ng tao sa paligid natin pero dapat ay igalang at irespeto ka din nila sa kung ano ka at ang gusto mo bilang isang individual.

  3. "Bad things are always going to happen in life. People will hurt you. But you can't use that as an excuse to fail or to hurt someone back. You'll only hurt yourself.”

  4. Well, you can never change how other people see you. Just be who you are and be happy with it. And you'll be surprised to see people who'll love you for being you. Happy Sunday! :)

  5. you may differ from this totally, but I think that you're only able to get past that consciousness stage because right now, you are already conforming to the society's norm (e.g. good looks, nice body, etc.)

  6. ay super true! at I admit nagagawa ko talaga to. pero nagi-guilty naman din ako kahit paano.

  7. You can't please everybody. Kahit anong gawin mo may masasabi't masasabi ang iba. Ang importante, masaya ka sa ginagawa mo at wala kang naaapakan na iba.