No Sex

My cousin is kind of frustrated because he doesn't have a sex life, because his wife is already 8 months pregnant.  Di daw siya makontento sa pagmamasturbate lang. Gusto sana niya na iblowjob siya ni Mrs or ihandjob but the problem is, ayaw ni Mrs. ng oral sex or kahit handjob man lang. And she's the kind of woman daw na di adventurous sa sex and she never sucked him kasi nadidiri daw. 

Sabi ng cousin ko parang may times na natutukso siya maghire ng prostitute,  or magkaroon ng fuck buddy (no strings attached kind of  relationship). And I told him thats not a good idea,

Kasi what if his wife finds out and knowing his wife eh, sure makikipaghiwalay yun sa kanya. In short dahil lang sa libog niya, eh baka masira ang happy marriage niya with his wife. At kung  maghihire siya ng pokpok baka makakuha siya ng STD or worst AIDS.

Close friend ko din ang wife niya kasi sa lahat ng mga asawa ng cousins ko siya ang pinakaclose ko. And I love them both

My cousin is kind of horny talaga, coz he has a lot  of porn collection and  he even collects    FHM, Maxim, Rogue magazines and I usually borrow from him LOL!

So ang suggestions ko sa kanya ay  bumili na lang siya ng isang sex toy like yung Fleshlight.

Sabi ko sa kanya na  pareho sila ng problema ng creator ng Fleshlight na si "Steven Shubin".

 Because  at that time Steve Shubin’s wife was pregnant with twins but she was already  40 years old . And his wife had  already suffered from two miscarriages. So, the obstetrician issued a ‘No sex’ , till the birth of the twins. In order to find a substitute for real intercourse, Shubin got the inspiration to create a sex toy that offered users a realistic body sculpture and replicated the feeling of vaginal sex. And with Steven's invention he became really rich with his invention and Fleshlight became the most famous sex toys for men and gaymen as well.

Since I 'm good at researching , I gave him this 2  local sex shop websites:

http://www.pleasureshop.com.ph

http://www.xtoysphil.com

And after a week nakabili na rin ang loko ng fleshlight  and he was really satisfied daw. He would usually use Cetaphil or KY Jelly as lubricant for his toy. At ang ginagawa niya  daw usually ay kinakantot niya yung toy at kinikiss niya ang wife niya. At may times na sumasakit daw ang panga ni wife sa katatawa sa ginagawa niya. 

I think the sex toy solved his problem with his wife. I don't see nothing wrong about sex toys coz these toys can help us to prevent of having multiple sex partners, premarital sex and it can also  enhance a couples sex life.

 

And Couples that use sex toys alone  tend to have a strong level of open communication, trust and unconditional love for their partners. Sex toys allow men and women to tap into creative sex and there is such beauty in allowing ourselves and/or partner to enjoy the pleasures they bring.

For me, using sex toys doesn't "say" anything about the kind of person you are, other than the fact that you're the kind of person who feels worthy of sexual pleasure