Yung pinsan ko is 2 years younger than me. Sinabihan nanaman ako ng nanay ko na inunahan pa ako ng pinsan ko, magpakasal at dapat mag girlfriend na ako ulit. Kasi daw baka late na daw ako magasawa at kung magkaanak naman ako eh mahirap na. Kasi baka lolo na ako at nasa wheel chair at ang anak ko eh highschool pa lang. And I should get married na daw before I turn 30.
Kasi yung older siblings ko are married na so its my turn na daw. Hay naku! di naman ganun kadali maghanap ng girlfriend or mainlove.
Eto naman ang naisip ko lalo na sa mga katulad ko na bachelor pa:
All of us has the sense of unease of growing old alone without family and kids.And I think the reason why we feel uneasy about not getting married, is because we all see marriage as our ultimate life goal.
And because we still harbor the feeling that you haven't reached our goals yet, then we feel uneasy about our life, and we develop an anxiety about it. I believe that we should change our way of thinking regarding marriage. Because some people are married but are not happy or some are separated or divorced.
Pero di naman ako nagiisa na single sa mundo,. I mean kahit ang presidente ng pilipinas eh single pa rin at his age. And yung iba namang celebrities like mar roxas, regine velasquez, etc. eh mga late na din sila magpakasal. So for me, it has nothing to do with age.
tama! mahirap pumulot na lang jan ng kung sino para magka love life ka lang! (haha)
ReplyDeleteGoodluck sayo! :)
It really has nothing to do with age. It is all about mentality, as you said, almost everyone wants to get married sooner or later in their lives, that becomes everyone's goal. If we think differently, we change our goals, we will not be depressed about being single at such a late age.
ReplyDeleteChanging our thoughts will change our lives.
check,, being committed with someone through marriage has nothing to do with the age but with how prepare you are for bigger responsibilities..
ReplyDeletechoz!!
hehehehe
hehe... ganun pala ang feeling...
ReplyDeletewala ako masabi. pero tatandaan ko yan kapag dumating na'ku dun (mukhang dun rin kasi ako papunta). a change of perspective, you say :)
whahah sakit sa bangs nun... much better kung single para magawa ang dapat magawa... at mahirap din kasi kapag nasa relationship ka na a lot of commitments to do di ba.. so ok lang yan... enjot being single and to mingle.. (naks ako ba to pasaway kasi post mo eh)
ReplyDeletedadating din ang tamang panahon para dian :D
@mr chan
ReplyDeletethanks tama ka diyan mahirap talaga kaya
nga nagkaroon ng mail order bride
@canonista very well said at dapat isama
din ang financially ready
@ceiboh
yup bigger responisibilities and mababawasan
ang sarap ng buhay and being selfish
@nowitzki
unpredictable kasi ang future eh di natin
alam kung ano mangyayari
@axl hindi naman pasaway kundi may point ka
masarap maging single
at talagang naglecture ka po. hehe. sige ikaw na, ikaw na ang maraming alam sa marriage stuff. hehe. pero tama ka. maraming married jan, mas masaya pa tayo sa kanila. it's really a matter of perspective, you say. the bottomline is, whether you are happy or not. go for what makes you happy. :)
ReplyDeletepaaaak na pak yan! mabuti ako hindi na tinatanong ni mama. hahahaha
ReplyDeletehahaha ang galing ni IDOL malaking TOMO.. pero bata pa naman ako kaya ikaw na muna mauna.. hahaha...
ReplyDeleteGatungan ko lang comment ni Ceiboh..
ReplyDeleteCZECH CZECH CZECH REPUBLIC!
next time akong tanungin, isasama ko sina vice ganda, john lapus, at roderick paulate sa iyong listahan ng mga sikat na di agad nag-asawa.
ReplyDeletelove comes in the most unexpected time and place with the unexpected person ..tandaan nyo po ..
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